Tuesday Tips: How to Plan a Successful Bachelorette Party

With wedding season in full effect this may help some of you. Tuesday Tips will be about how to throw a successful bachelorette party. A little background on how a became an "expert" in this area was by having amazing friends and family that wanted me to be part of their special day. I keep all my bridesmaid dresses and I think I have a total of 15 dresses which I know is not much in comparison to some of you who should have stared in 27 dresses....but if you know me you know I love to plan any event and if I could be an event planner full time I would!!! Anyways the year of 2010 put my planning skills to the test when 3 of my closest friends got married in the same year and I was honored to be each one of theirs matron of honor. I had to be creative and make each one perfect for them while maintaining a budget so I picked up a book called The Bridesmaid Guide. This prior to Pinterest and it seemed all the online stuff was the same I had seen at every bachelorette party. The book offers great ideas and something you use as a base of planning.


Before you get to that first things first:

1. Get a guest list from the bride with phone numbers, emails, and addresses. The more information the better.

2. Ask the bride what she wants. Some don't care, others have it planned to a T. 

3. Send a save that date out via Facebook, email, and text. I have found this is effective for any person. I usually send this out 6-8 months in advanced. Most of these parties are in the summer so people are busy and you want to make sure the bride has all her friends and family there.

4. Start your planning so you can find the deals. I like to do a theme party depending on the girl, sometimes you can mix themes. I included some pics that maybe helpful in your planning. I will showcase some of them down the road. I have done others but these were defiantly more themed. 

5. Don't be afraid to ask other bridesmaids and guests to pitch in. I usually ask every to throw in 20 bucks towards the brides evening. It includes her stay at the hotel or house wherever you decide to stay, dinner for her and drinks, snacks for all, and any left over money should be used on the bride and her guests, i.e. rounds of shots.  

Scrapbook and Camo Goodie Bags for the Guests
(included late night snacks, water and advil)

A little spa treatment before hitting the town...check out your local vendors for free services.
Side note people should buy a little something for the person coming out.

Up close of the drink menus

Sex in the City themed party with drink menus

Each bride has a scrapbook made by
her nearest and dearest friends and family

All girls in black and Bride showcased in white, makes for fun pics

Move it Monday: Challenge Yourself

Health tip:  Drink 1oz of water for every 2lbs you weigh, daily. 

To I ask you to challenge yourself. Summer is coming to an end and that doesn't mean you have to put on the winter weight. This month I have 3 fitness challenges I am going to set for myself. I encourage you to do the same and we can share stories in the below comment section. First up a 30 day squat challenge, next taking stairs instead of elevators, and three start my new fitness/health challenge with a group of friends. 

Challenge one:

This butt needs a lift and squats is the best exercise (in my opinion) that tones and gets rid of cellulite. To speed up the process of cellulite removal invest in creams like Nivea firming lotion and gel. Every Monday I will report an update on how the challenges are going. If anyone would like to do this with me please comment below...Good Luck!! 

Challenge Two: Take the Stairs...walk it out! I have done this in the past and it truly works, great results when paired with other challenges. 

Challenge Three: 

Start and maintain fitness/health challenge with friends. I will post monthly pictures to hold myself accountable and post what workouts and eating habits I am taking in case you want to join in on the journey. First pics will be before (today) and after (end of August). 

Thursday Thoughts: Pay it Forward

A topic I wanted to touch on this week was giving back. So many times we see people donating to foreign countries and other areas that we may not be familiar with. Although I think that is great and we do have people within our own community that can use our help or even just paying it forward! The smallest things can make someone's day, like paying for the person's coffee behind you in the Starbucks line, or complimenting a co-worker or friend. I feel most people are quick to judge and have negative comments more than being positive and doing something constructive. This is something we have been discussing and recently my friend Mindy shared this video with us and it really puts things into perspective on how we can treat one another and pay it forward. Please watch the video and grab a tissue: Pay It Forward


In relation to this, about a year and half ago a few friends and I got together to start a bible study. We realized we all wanted to learn more about the word. Through our recent teachings we have come across the topics of love and paying it forward. All the ladies in the bible study tithe each month and we use that money to give back to local charities. One we do quarterly and will ask for anyone's help with is the East Cleveland's Men's Shelter. This is hosted by the red cross and River of Life Church, we volunteer with these great men and women to host a dinner for the men's shelter. The bible study group aka "Bible Babes" makes care packages for the men. Almost every time the items we receive are donated by local companies, such as toothbrushes and toothpastes from David Patton's Dentist Office in Solon, Ohio or Goldberg Companies who donated book bags and other handy items. The girls also buy throughout the quarter of items they think would be useful. If you would ever like to help with this please let me know. Some other local charities that could use help are The City Mission on 55th and Carnegie Ave and Laura's Home (located next door).

Most recently we were able to help the Ronald McDonald House in Cleveland, Ohio. We were able to buy all the items on the RMH wish list, minus the gift cards. If you are feeling generous please donate to any one of the houses. The Cleveland house tends to hit home for me. One reason is it is next to the Cleveland Clinic where I work, and two we had friends stay their over the winter while their twins were at the PICU (Pediatric Intensive Care Unit), through prayer and wonderful doctors the twins left the hospital in complete perfect health. The Ronald McDonald House hosted the parents with a place to stay and meals. They offer support in anyway they can and have plenty of activites for children. Recently the CAVs donated to the computer room providing new computers, desks, chairs and remodeling of the area. The Cleveland RMH serves 4 hospitals in the area, Cleveland Clinic, University Hospitals, Rainbows Babies and Children, and Metro. They are adding on 15 more rooms so I am sure they will need more help coming this fall. Please check them out and see if you can lend a helping hand....http://www.rmhcleveland.org/about-us

This picture does not do it justice
because we are missing 6 other ladies

If you know of any local charities that need help, please comment below. 

Move it Monday! Legs Legs Legs

A couple of weeks ago I put together random workouts from Pinterest  to see if they were a.) effective and b.) if I could do it. I paired up with my soon to be SIL and friend Mindy....I have to say what I liked about these workouts is you could go at your own pace. You do not have to be in training, you can have some experience or be a newbie. I am going to share a few of them through out the next month I hope that you get something out of them....just as we did. 

I found this workout on Pinterest  and thought....naaa this is way to easy to be effective or even feel like it is working....boy I was wrong. This needs to be part of your daily workout not just one part but it is very effective for removing bulky thighs, fat pockets, and toning up the inner thigh. No one wants to see their legs jiggle in shorts or skirts! We usually do this workout at the end, kind of as a cool down and toning method. Remember to measure yourself before and every week for about a month. Please share your results and let me know how it worked for you! Remember you have to actually do the exercises for them to work. YOU CAN DO IT!!!

From the original site: http://www.t-tapp.com/articles/legs/index.html

"Two sets of legs are pictured, a fitness model with athletic muscle development and an editorial model with toned muscle development, because Awesome Legs works for all fitness levels. Don't be fooled by the simplicity of the movement, it is very effective and when done in proper form, you will feel the difference! Start with two sets and work up to three."

PHASE I	Cts 1-2	Cts 3-4
(Starting Position) On back with legs up; ankle knee and hip should be in alignment (you will feel stomach muscles work too). Point toes and keep pointed as hard as you can throughout movement.	Right leg bends aiming foot to fanny cheek each count. Keep all leg muscles tight on left leg.	Switch with left leg bending aiming foot to fanny cheek each count. Keep muscles tight on right leg.
Cts 5-6-7-8 Switch R-L-R-L alternating legs each count. It's very important to tighten all muscles on the extended leg and keep both feet pointing those toes as hard as you can.
PHASE II	Cts 1-2	Cts 3-4
( Starting Position) Same as Phase I but with a flat foot. If advanced, pull toes toward body for even more "stretch". It is important to keep the muscles tight throughout the movement (you should feel it in your calves).	Right leg bends aiming heel to fanny cheek each count. Keep muscles tight on left leg.	Switch with left leg bending aiming heel to fanny cheek each count. Keep muscles tight on right leg.
Cts 5-6-7-8Switch R-L-R-L alternating legs each count. It's very important to tighten all muscles on the extended leg and keep both feet pointing those toes as hard as you can. Phase III Ct 1 Ct 2 With pointed toes, "roll-out" knees as far as you can with right heel in front of left foot and right toes facing side wall. Keep legs straight. Switch with left foot in front of right and keep egs straight. Maintain "roll-out" throughout entire movement. Cts 3-4 Cts 5-6 Switch back to Ct 1 position with right in front of left and hold 2 cts. Keep knees outward (concentrate pushing out) with ankles together and right foot on top. Bend for cts 5-6 and extend back up for cts 7-8. It is very important to slightly tuck fanny and push knees outward as you extend legs up (use ankles as leverage). Keep toes pointed at all times. Phase IV Ct 1 Ct 2 With pointed toes, "roll-out" knees as far as you can with left heel in front of right foot and left toes facing side wall. Keep legs straight. Switch with right foot in front of left and keep legs straight. Maintain "roll-out" throughout entire movement. Cts 3-4 Cts 5-6 Switch back to Ct 1 position with left in front of right and hold 2 cts. Keep knees outward ( concentrate pushing out) with ankles together and left foot on top. Bend for cts 5-6 and extend back up for cts 7-8. It is very important to slightly tuck fanny and push knees outward as you extend legs up (use ankles as leverage). Keep toes pointed at all times. Final Phase  Repeat entire sequence I, II, III & IV. You can do it!

Spot of the Week: Sand Bar/Blue Marlin in PIB (Christmas in July)

This summer has been so much fun my blogging has been left unattended. While chatting with a friend yesterday it made me want to start back up again. This time with a variety of information and things to look forward to through out the week. So I am kicking it off with Wednesday's Spot of Week, ranging from places in CLE and spots we have been to in our travels. First up Christmas in July 00000013!!

Christmas in July is this weekend and the spot to be is PIB! We have been up to the islands twice this year and I have found the best hang out in the July heat is the swim up bars! Be watchful of the ones who have not left the pool for hours :)

Although we enjoy PIB Resort/Blue Marlin it can get packed and a tad crazy. I guess it depends what atmosphere you are looking for. If you want a younger crowd with a great DJ (A-Dubb-my husband's hero) and cheap pitchers head to PIB resort. The swim up bar is called Blue Marlin but it is the same location. Helpful Hint: If you forgot towels just pick a room number, for example 203, and you will get free towels. The bar is fun and worth checking out. DJ A-Dubb also has competitions throughout the day that are pretty entertaining. Such as best belly flop, dance contest, booty shaking, etc. With the amount of booze people are drinking it makes for an interesting people watching session. 

The other spot that is a little more low key but just as fun is Sand Bar, they have a huge swim up bar and poll with water volleyball, a sandy volleyball court, cornhole, tiki bar, and full arcade. Plenty to do for all ages. They do allow kids in there during the day and they charge for the kidos since they are not drinking. I believe it is a $5-$10 cover. The only down side to this place is the DJ....they need someone in there with real equipment and people skills. I like that they do a throwback 90's tribute but it is good to mix it up. The drinks are great but bring cash, this goes for most PIB bars. The bartenders are not so organized when giving you your check.....and I am putting this nicely. 

Have a safe and happy Christmas in July!!!! Hope to see you at the BAY!!!!

Kelly's Island Strawberry Shots

Kelly's Island Strawberry Shots: AT BAG THE MOON

Easiest recipe in the world and always a crowd pleaser:

Ingredients:
1-2 pints of strawberries
Bottle of Tequlia Rose
1 can of Whip Cream

Directions:
Wash the strawberries and core out the center of the berry. 
Fill the center with tequila rose
top with whip cream

Easy as that....but eat quick because it can get messsyyyy!!!

Enjoy your summer!!!!!!!!!!

Travel Tips 101

Summer is right around the corner and it is traveling time!!! Some of you know this about me and others don't but a big part of my job is to make travel arrangements and plan events. Not only from my job have I become savvy with traveling on a budget butttttt I love to travel!!! If I can get great prices for excellent vacations....I am in! In the past 3 years we have gone to Chicago, Nashville, Gatlinburg, Key West, Pittsburgh, PIB (more times than I can count), South Carolina (a few times), West Virginia, and more. If you have any tips please let me know I would love to get some new ideas!!!

Airfare:
Sign up at airfare watchdog. It will give you the option to track as many destinations as you would like. For example:

CLE to CHI
CAN to CHI

You will receive updates on the best flights. I currently have mine set for Nashville and Boston. Although sometimes the best flights are when I randomly check the web. 

Bookit.com is another great site, they will send you updated on all travel deals. The nice thing about Bookit is that you can put money down. You don't have to pay in full. 

Check your entertainment book, there is usually 20% off flights for expedia, airlines, and other travel sites. This is even more so with hotels. 

Hotels

Pick a hotel and sign up for their rewards-it is free-you can get rewards each time you stay at a hotel. After you accumulate enough points you can stay free some nights. If you don't have enough points to cover the entire balance they will use whatever points you have and put it towards the room. Not bad when you were planning on traveling anyways! 

Savings tips
Gift cards:
When you know you are going on a trip, any extra money you come across go and get a gift card for the hotel you are staying at, you end up getting most of the rooms in gift cards and don't have that expense to worry about when you travel that week or weekend. Try to buy from Giant Eagle so you can save up on fuel perks. If you are driving to the destination you can use the fuel perks and save more money!

Start saving for your trip 6-9 months in advance if it is a big trip. This really helps when planning a vaca. This way most of the money is saved and you don't have to worry about your checking account while on vacation. I recommend for anything over 5 days 1200.00 bucks. Especially if you want to try new places and go on excursions. 

I don't use groupon trips but I know people that save and this is another great source of travel and savings. Make sure you do your research before booking. Check to make sure you can't get a better deal somewhere else and if the trip is worth the money. 

These are just a few things I do before booking any trips. I will share more as they come up. If you have any ideas to share please dooooo!!!